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Consent Resources

Consent Education

Art about Consent

Consensual Tea Drinking
It's OK to say "No": House of Yes Educational Video Series Vol 2
The Three Dimensions of Consent by Michael McDonald
Edges, Boundaries, & Limits by Michael McDonald
7 Men Share What they Don’t Understand about Consent, Experts Answer their Questions
Thought provoking ways to physically redirect a person non-consensually hugging you.
Planned Parenthood Consent Videos
When Do You Know Someone Wants to Have Sex With You by Planned Parenthood
Guidelines for Negotiating and Establishing Consent
How Do We Understand Sexual Pleasure in this Age of Consent

​Deep Consent by Jill Nagle
Music 
Rachel Lark

-  For The Guys 
- It’s Hard to be a Feminist and Still Want Dick
Bitchy Princess
Neuroscience Love Song

Comedy
If Famous Movie Romances were Feminist  

Anna Kendrick’s Between the Scenes Takeover
Harassment Lessons - The Mash Report 
SNL & Dr. Ford/Kavanaugh Hearing Spoof
John Oliver on Kavanaugh Testimonial
Consent Explained to Kids and their Parents
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Spoken Word
Choosing Our Words

Creating New Paradigm

The Brave Space: Some Thoughts on Safety in LARPS
Calling IN: A Less Disposable Way of Holding Each Other Accountable by Ngọc Loan Trần 
Consent Culture: time to get into bed with liberation.
"The Opposite of Rape Culture is Nurturance Culture." 
How an Honor Code Holds People Accountable
Our Story of Rape & Resolution
The Missing Stair
Cockblocking Rapists is a Moral Obligation
The Conversations We Can’t Have: Social Capital and Violence in Radical Communities 
Accounting for Ourselves Breaking the Impasse Around Assault and Abuse
6 Reasons #NotAllMen Misses the Point because it’s Derailing Important Conversations 
Submissive Sex #MeToo
How a Poster in a Women’s Restroom in a Bar Cleverly Combats Sexual Assault
Better Sex Ed
Writing Consent into Fiction  
The Hidden Epidemic of Men Who are Raped by Women 
6 Reasons Not All men Misses the Point Because it’s Derailing Important Conversations

Aggressions & Microaggressions

David Schwimmer Made Six Short Films About Sexual Harassment. We Annotate One of Them. 
How microaggressions are like mosquito bites 
Microaggressions in the Classroom
Dissociating When Triggered by Intimacy 
What kind of person makes false rape accusations?
I was labeled the High School Slut
Why Men Keep Demanding Sex From Their Partners Over and Over
Sexist Men have Psychological Problems
When Misogynists become Terrorists
White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack

​How to Center those Harmed

For those Harmed by Sexual Assault
Before I Blame Myself and Feel Guilty
Avoiding Victim Blaming
The Psychology of Victim Blaming
Absurdity of Victim Blaming
On Centering Survivors in Transformative Justice
On Himpathy
Me Too Through a Solutions Lens
Avoiding Friendly Fire in the MeToo Moment

​Accountability Education

How to Support Harm Doers in Being Accountable
Consent is Accountability
How Shame Can Block Accountability
What are Obstacles to Accountability?

​Getting Called Out

Tips for what you can do when you’ve been accused of a sexual violation by Misha 
What To Do if You Are The One Accused of a Consent Violation  
The Right Way to React when you Violate Consent
What to do When Your Friend Gets Called Out
Resources for People Called Out for Sexual Assault
A Message for Men Who want to Avoid Women Regretting Having Been Sexual with Them
The Myth of the Male Bumbler
How Men are Trained to Think Sexual Assault No Big Deal
The Call Out-Invisibilia Podcast 
Cancelling by ContraPoints

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